If You Can Manage to Become Meditative in Your Sex Life. With open eyes, sex can take you on the path of oneness." This blindness has to be transformed you must become open-eyed. Great bliss is there, but you can pass by blindly and miss it. You must not pass through it blindly, unconsciously. By meditation I mean you have to pass through it fully alert, aware. "I am not against sex and I am not for love. When sex becomes a meditation it flowers into love, and this flowering is a movement towards the divine. So the more sex there is between two persons, the less love there will be because then the preface is not needed. It is nothing but an introduction to sex, a preface. It is just preparing the ground for the sex act. Before that, love is just a lure, a foreplay, and nothing else. Ordinarily we use both words as if they have an inner association. ".You have used the words `sex' and `love'. How can we sublimate and spiritualize sex? Is it possible to have sex, to make love, as a meditation, as a jumping board towards higher levels of consciousness? Please describe to us the spiritual significance of sex energy. And when it flows through meditation, the divine door is being opened." The same energy that has flowed through sex will now flow through meditation. And by and by, spontaneously, without a conscious effort to sublimate sex, energy will have a new source to flow to. "In the same way, the more you meditate, the less sex will have an appeal to you. They are childish and now the child is no longer a child. He has just grown up he has become mature. He has not sublimated anything he has not suppressed anything. Sex will just become irrelevant, meaningless. Then sex will not be there, but there will not be any suppression, any sublimation. Treat it as a temple and you will transcend it and be transformed.
"Create meditation out of sex make sex an object of meditation. In the same way, you will never even know that the mechanical urge for sex is going. The tree never even knows the leaves are falling. It will be just like dry leaves falling from a tree. Meditation will grow from it, and out of the growing meditation a new door will open and sex will wither away.
"The more you go into meditation through sex, the less effect sex will have. This label of ‘sex guru’ comes from religious people.” “Why so much emphasis? People are obsessed particularly the religious people are obsessed. Many books have been written against it – as if that is the only book I have written! It has been discussed criticized, analyzed, commented upon in every possible way. There is not a single Hindu, Jaina saint, mahatma in India who has not read it. It is a strange phenomenon: my other books have not reached to so many people. Now that is the book which has reached to millions of people. Just the beginning of it is concerned with sex as you go deeper in understanding it moves towards superconsciousness, towards samadhi. The name of the book is From Sex to Superconsciousness. “Out of my three hundred books only one book concerns sex, and that, too, not in its totality. If I say anything about sex, immediately they jump upon it. I have not talked about sex more than I have talked about meditation, love, God, prayer, but nobody seems to be interested in God, love, meditation, prayer. “The people who call me ‘sex guru’ are obsessed with sex. And if you repress it the natural outcome is a perverted human being. Rather than transforming it, religions have been repressing it. It has to be transformed, and through transformation there is transcendence. If I Say Anything About Sex, Immediately They Jump Upon It